IKEA's story...

Its my busy day….

Morning….chow kit market… weekly groceries shopping… prawns, fishes and crab….veggie and fruits…CHEAP…. CHEAP…. CHEAP… example oranges 14 – rm10, fuji apples 14- rm10, gong lai (L size) 8 for rm10…. Why the same fruits in supermarket are very EXPENSIVE??? Why we have to pay more??? We pay for the air-cond, dried environment… compared to chow kit- very wet, many people, fishy smell, hot… stuffy… WOW!!! Real market air and environment…. But the things sold there are very fresh… cheap… and can bargain some more… MALAYSIAN style…. I lovin it…!!!

Afternoon… one utama damansara… wanna met friend… WOW jaya jusco SALE……end up 3 t-shirts for iman…alamak…. Stop at IKEA to buy iman’s pelapik katil, quite heavy… one incident happen….

After paid, I wanted to carry that thing, nak tanggung sikit, when I turned, suddenly loud sound “POK”… it knocked someone’s head.. one auntie at late 40’s, I think… immediately I apologized, “I’m sorry”… then he kept rubbing her head (near to her right ear). It was very painful I guessed… while I wanted to leave the counter, I still looking at her… takut la kalu too serious…. Her daughter or granddaughter (I’m not very sure, she look young) asked “what’s wrong”, she replied “she knocked my head”… I approached them and asked “are you ok.?”.. she keep saying “she knocked my head”… i try to make it clear… “I did not purposely knock your head… I accidently knocked your head… “ her son/grandson/son-in-law (not sure) added “ya…accidently”… she looked angry… “but you knocked my head”… wahhhh ini sudah melampau…. I replied… “do you look in front when you are walking? I’m standing near to the counter, and I’m not standing in the middle of the lane….”(I was trying to tell her indirectly that she were the one who came into my lane)… She got angry..”now u wanna tell me that I’m wrong” she started to shout… wow… I replied.. “no… I wanna say.. its an accident…. That’s all”.. she repied again..”so why you r so garang2…you should apologize…” her son… “she already apologized la just now…” that auntie said “is it… no”.. with a little bit of smile on my face I replied… “I already apologized… immediately after it happen…and who yg garang2” his son admit it… her face turned very disappointed.. I wanna stop the argument… she still continue.. “but u still knocked my head… that’s fact”..
AAArrrggggHHHHH I dah tak kuasa melayan karenah auntie yg tak paham2 bahasa nie… I pun geleng kepala.. sambil tgk anak lelakinya… give him a sarcastic smile…. than at her.. I left the place… TAK KUASA… TAK KUASA….

What I really don’t understand with people attitudes…
1. Why is it too difficult to admit your mistake (she enter my lane)
2. Why u still wanna argue if you know that its also ur mistake..
3. Kenapa ego tercabar bila ada orang yg tahu u pun buat salah dan cuba nak terangkan kat u
4. Why you want to point the mistake to other people…while u r the one who make the mistake (why u garang2)
5. Why the older cant really show very good examples to younger generations....?

The most important issue that make me really don’t understand people is why we love to do bad things compare to a single good thing… ? since we’re baby, to primary school finally continue to secondary school (for those who are lucky they’ll continue until dip/ degree/ master level), parents and teachers / lecturers only thought us all good things…. And they always remind us not to do any bad things…they also explain all consequences of doing bad things… but we still love the negative actions…

Pity us… our creator gave us brain which can think and make good decision.. but we usually use feelings and emotions as our guide.. I don’t say its wrong.. but if we add all three together… it will leads to the BEST decision…I believed it’s the positive decision…. So why we don’t fully utilize our own BRAIN….!!! Its yours… no need to pay rental… just used it… its gift from our creator…

This reminds me to my colleague story…
She ask her students… “I asked u to come to class… why you did not come to class…. Nobody ask you not to come to class…. Suddenly one student bravely answered “THE DEVIL ASK US NOT TO COME TO CLASS” he end with big smile….. :)

Funny ya…. We know who ask us to do bad things but we still follow his order… when we wanna CHANGE….????

One more thing… for older people…you should show to younger generation good attitudes..if younger person wanna tell you ur mistakes in proper way… its GOOD… accept it… sit and think…. Is it true its your mistake… than don’t repeat it again… young not mean they cant speak.. old not mean just give advise and order… once in a while…. Just give and take…. Teach and learn…
This will create better generations and we can enjoy ur life MORE than before…

Cheerssss…. :)